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Do not tell him you are going anywhere.
You can let the facility know that you will not be visiting for a while. that you will be out of town. tell them to not inform your father that you are out of town.. If your dad has access to a phone do not take any calls from that number, let them go to voicemail.
They have your number, they can contact you in an EMERGENCY but designate another person as a successor POA in case a decision has to be made and you can not be reached.
(A successor POA is a good idea anyway so if something does happen it will not have to go through the Guardianship process)

Please do not let your fear ruin your trip. I hope you are going someplace fun and exciting!
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